Because your child can’t spend a check, you have several options for giving your child cash.
- Give your kid the cash from your pocket. Deposit the check later.
- Deposit the check remotely using your smart phone. Give cash to child from your pocket.
- Drive to the bank and cash the check in person. Give cash to the child.
Only after you process the check through your banking account can your child put the cash in a piggy bank.
Notice that the piggy bank is standby idly twiddling its hooves waiting for the cash.
Who uses paper checks anyway
Grandma still does, as do many other people like me who write checks as gifts because it’s convenient and easier than figuring out another way to give someone money. But those same grandkids who get the checks may never write one as an adult.
My granddaughter was fascinated to watch her mother write a check. “What are you doing?” Mom explained how to write out a number in words. However, this a skill my granddaughter may never need.
What to tell the kids about checks
When you are “cashing” a check for your child you can explain the process of converting a paper check into cash, just like a real bank does.
Things change. How we transfer money changes. Your children are growing up in a time when money takes many different forms.
We now comfortably use e-checks, or electronic checks, to perform the same function as conventional paper checks. We deposit paper checks using smart phones without ever going to the bank. Today if you are using mobile depositing what new technology will your children be using in the future?
When piggy banks don’t cash checks
Set up a system as explained in The No-Cash Allowance. By using a written account-based system (on paper or on a computer) your kids can have hands-on practice managing money they can’t see or touch. Your kids will be learning how to manage money as a number. After all, isn’t this what you are doing?
The process is simple. When your child receives a check:
- Act as your child’s banker.
- Direct deposit the amount into their account in writing.
- Cash the check and deposit in the bank.
The next time your child receives a check you can process the check, explain how checks work, and help you child see how a deposit in their No-Cash Allowance account makes their balance get bigger. You are providing hands-on financial education in your own home with a lesson your kids won’t learn anywhere else.
Extra credit reading: “The Disappearing Check” from digitalcheck.com
Lynne Finch helps parents teach their kids about money from piggy banks to online banking. “It’s time to teach the kids how to manage money they can’t see or touch,” says the author of The No-Cash Allowance. Follow Lynne’s common sense approach for teaching children that money is a number with kids as young as pre-school and continuing through high school.